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STEP THREE in "Building your life around love."

Love VERIFIES that our actions reflect unconditional love.

VISUAL REMINDER:  Your third finger can remind you to VERIFY.  First finger 3 Verify



Lve reflects your Creator’s Image in you … 


Am I interested in loving them “in the way I was designed to love”?

Do I understand that my way may be manipulative and that the best way may not always be the easiest to do and/or understand?

Do I search the reliable, moral sources (those historically validated outside your personal self) for truth about what love should actually look like?

Have I reached out for strength beyond myself for guidance to understand the best way to engage in loving them?



• Applying VERIFY 24-7 Exercise 

Step  Identify someone that you want to love better. Consider home, work, school, church, community, and any other setting.

Step Rate your performance in how well you VERIFY. Make notes to support your number.

10 = best (no room for improvement);

0 = poorest (no relationship, and/or not trying);

5 = apathetic (okay, but not intentionally trying to improve)

Step Plan your improvement.   Chart (on paper or use a word processor) some choices you can make and/or some actions you can take to improve any step where you may be lacking. If something is not working, return to step LISTENING, as often as needed and for as long as necessary to proceed to steps dealing with OBSERVING, then return to VERIFYING, before ENGAGING.  Your chart might look like this:



Step Share your improvement plan with someone who "verifies" your value (loves unconditionally, even if it hurts).

Start Now!  Use your personal note-taking software, or start taking notes now from one of many free online note-taking websites - several are listed in the "Friends" Menu page.


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